Blindspots

Judging Others Funny how we tend to forget that we all have blindspots. So easy, to judge others based on the things that they can’t see for themselves, those things that seem ‘obvious’ to us. ” I give up, you mean they can’t see how they’re sabotaging and blocking their lives?” We retort. Here isContinue reading “Blindspots”

Procrastinating purposefully- Life Coaching

Life Coach True and authentic life coaching comes from within ourselves. It might be fine and exciting to have a guru “psychoanalyse” your life, but you have the capabilities in you to effect change. A life coach is great, having seen its effect in my life, I advocate for it. Coaching lets you bask inContinue reading “Procrastinating purposefully- Life Coaching”

Oneness- What is spirituality?

There are some questions that no one should ever answer for you. These questions include and by far not limited to; What is success? How does a perfect marriage look like? and What is spirituality? amongst many other person-oriented aspects of life.. What is spirituality? Spirituality is complex. To simply it, for me it isContinue reading “Oneness- What is spirituality?”

A Comfortable Is (Very) Uncomfortable

Uncomfortable Today A rollercoaster ride would be far much better choice than sacrifices we need for a better future. “Uncomfortable for a comfortable tomorrow”? What does it mean? (I hope you have heard this phrase before) It basically means that, we have to endure some changes to have our dream future. Albeit Einstein is creditedContinue reading “A Comfortable Is (Very) Uncomfortable”

My Not So Free Magazine- Intergrity

Back To Normal-ish With the shops now opened in England, we are spoiling ourselves rotten. I have popped in a few shops myself, over the last couple of weeks. I love my books, magazines, you name it… just about anything that could potentially quench my curious nature (Or maybe just easily bored self) Today asContinue reading “My Not So Free Magazine- Intergrity”

We Learn Everyday-My Linktree

Tips To Looking Forward To Each Day   “One thing I can get excited about today is…” That is something I have to reflect upon every single morning before I wake up, and I love it.  “The High Performance Planner”  is a journal I bought recently that help me set the tone for my dayContinue reading “We Learn Everyday-My Linktree”

Don’t Judge a Book by Its Cover-Quick to Judge

“What seems nasty, painful and even evil, can become a source of beauty, joy and strength. If faced with an open mind, every moment is a golden one for anyone who has the vision to recognise it as such.”  Henry Miller  It is all good, even the bad (stuff)   Something interestingly weird happened to meContinue reading “Don’t Judge a Book by Its Cover-Quick to Judge”

She Is Curving Too Soon.

As mothers most of us will see her as the 15-16-17 yr old girl she is. But sadly some people will see a woman depending on how developed her curves seem.  Some will want her for all the wrong reasons.  She is faced with 3 humanly response.  Fight, Flight or Freeze Fight back until they see herContinue reading “She Is Curving Too Soon.”

Have You Experienced Schadenfreude

Schadenfreude Are some of us guilty of schadenfreude?* You know we all sometimes do things for the strangest of reasons. Factors that may seem as strong motivators to us, may turn us into silent monsters. Simple things such as pursuit of money can turn out to be empty and shallow but gets worse when weContinue reading “Have You Experienced Schadenfreude”

‘Should’ Goals and Real Goals

Some people find fault like there is a reward for it. Zig Ziglar Free from Self-Judgement We need to suspend judgement on what seems to be right or wrong especially when trying to transform our lives. (So long as you are not breaking the law) Eliminate the ‘should’ Once you decide you are transitioning toContinue reading “‘Should’ Goals and Real Goals”